Arguing the Right Way

Why do people argue?  It seems impossible for two people in a relationship to avoid some friction from time to time.  Since we are all different and look at situations differently it would be hard for two people to agree on everything all the time.  However, there are ways to argue that can avoid hurt feelings and extended anger.  This website http://www.breakupsmadesimple.com/blog/2009/01/16/arguing-the-right-way.html gives you ideas of better ways to argue and still get your point across to the other person.  It is important in any relationship to let the other person know your ideas and feelings.  Disagreeing with someone does not have to be a yelling match, but a discussion.  Be prepared to compromise on issues that are important to both of you.